I’ll preface this article by saying that yes, I’m from crazy California. I eat granola with fruits and nuts in the morning, am vegetarian (well, pescatarian), dislike wearing shoes, and practice yoga. At least I don’t have dreadlocks—yet. So there—now you’re warned.

I’m currently winging my way over to Hawaii’s Big Island, probably my favorite U.S. destination, and a place I’ve been to a few times a year for more than a couple decades—including only three weeks ago. It’s a special place for me and especially my wife, who was born in Hilo and then eventually married me in Makena. Unfortunately this trip isn’t really for pleasure as we’ll be scattering the ashes of both of my wife’s parents, who long ago went to Hawaii on their honeymoon… then quit their jobs and stayed. Yes, it’s that kind of place. I guess in a way we’re experiencing the circle of life, and perhaps this time closing one of its intricate loops.

Long-time readers of my Evolving Excellence blog will remember that years ago I would often escape to Hawaii on my own for a couple days to decompress and recalibrate. Solitude, silence, and the sea can do wonders when life is throwing some incredible work and personal chaos at you, as it was at me.

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